In Japan, Christmas has evolved into a romantic occasion akin to Valentine’s Day, with couples embracing the holiday as an opportunity for love-filled celebrations. For university student Sumire Sekino, one of her most cherished Christmas memories involved exploring Tokyo’s best date spots with her boyfriend during their first month of dating. From snapping photos at TeamLab’s immersive digital art installation to enjoying breathtaking views atop Shibuya Sky, it was a day steeped in romance.
Similarly, 19-year-old Akao Takao recalled visiting dazzling light displays and a Christmas market with his girlfriend before savoring a cozy hot chocolate. “I had a wonderful experience,” he said, encapsulating the romantic allure of Christmas in Japan.
Christmas as a Romantic Tradition
Unlike the West, where Christmas is largely family-oriented, Japan’s interpretation leans toward romance. Couples fill bustling districts like Tokyo’s Roppongi and Ginza, adorned with twinkling lights, or escape to snowy Hokkaido for a magical white Christmas. Luxury hotels offer “romantic escape” packages, complete with festive dining and exclusive experiences. For instance, Ritz-Carlton Tokyo pairs dinner credits with ice skating, while Grand Hyatt Tokyo features rooms with enchanting views of illuminated trees.
Young couples in Japan often live with their parents until marriage, making an overnight stay in a luxury hotel a rare and cherished experience. However, these indulgences can come at a steep cost, with premium rooms reaching $2,000 per night.
The tradition also sees restaurants unveiling special dinner sets and shops offering discounted gifts such as chocolates and jewelry. For many, it’s about creating an atmosphere of romance, as explained by Roy Starrs, associate professor of Japanese studies at the University of Otago. “It’s all about mood and atmosphere. Young couples venture out to view spectacular displays of lights, creating a romantic setting conducive to young love,” Starrs said.
The Unique Origins of Christmas in Japan
Japan’s version of Christmas is rooted in aesthetics rather than religion. With less than 1% of the population identifying as Christian, the holiday is viewed as a cultural spectacle rather than a religious event. Introduced during the 16th century by missionaries, Christmas celebrations were suppressed for over two centuries during the Tokugawa era. The holiday gained momentum post-World War II, influenced by American culture.
Today, Christmas in Japan features festive lights, German-style markets, and the iconic Japanese Christmas cake. Starrs highlights how these elements align with Japan’s appreciation for beauty, often culminating in romantic outings and, occasionally, marriage proposals.
Adapting to Economic Realities
Japan’s romantic Christmas traditions face challenges in the wake of economic stagnation and rising costs. Once characterized by lavish dates involving champagne, limousines, and luxury hotels, young couples are now opting for budget-friendly celebrations. A survey by marketing company MERY reveals a shift toward simpler activities like home parties, light displays, and shared Christmas cakes.
University student Inoue Shogo, 23, avoids expensive hotels during Christmas. “With Western food prices rising, we often choose affordable Japanese dishes,” he said. Similarly, 19-year-old Yuhi Hasegawa found joy in visiting Enoshima’s scenic island and festive lights with his girlfriend, embracing quality time over extravagance. “Staying home, watching a love series, and valuing time with your partner might be the perfect solution,” he shared.
Despite financial constraints, Japan’s unique interpretation of Christmas as a day of love endures, blending beauty, tradition, and romance in a way that continues to captivate couples across the nation.
